About love——-

About love——-

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle
with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn’t choose to
rest in the other person’s heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him/her, feel
honoured that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift
you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel
the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and
then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame,
let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time

Remember that you don’t choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really
do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the
way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love
cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone
who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget
that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to
grow only by giving it away

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own
seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or
coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it
arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave
from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can
do and there is nothing you should do.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to
live for a moment in your life.

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